Hey everyone, I just wanted some advice and/or insight to what the deal is and do about it. I am attractive young woman, I work out, train Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, box, run, train, rock climb and am in very good shape. I am smart, funny, love to have fun, am very spontaneous. I love to try thing new, am very outspoken, don’t take ****, blunt/up front, and am somewhat of a bad girl. Bad girl normally means the girl is also very narcissistic, self involved, users, etc etc. I’m not that, I’ve been told I’m more of a bad-*** bad girl than a bad girl, get what I’m saying? Anyways, I have had the worst luck with men. The. Worst. I put myself out there, always get seriously burned or played. I haven’t been dating for about 2 years to do “me” time, to focus on myself to work threw some issues, find out what I really want etc. I want a relationship. Now I want to be with someone, and I get hit on guys who either are great guys but I have literally no interest in. Are married yet still come on to me. Are guys who want protection. Or, which is the WORST, I get hit on by players. This past time, I started becoming very interested in a guy, flirted, we talked about dating, turned out he was a player. Normally, I would have been upset then be fine the next day. I NORAMLLY have the “he’s just a guy, what ever. NEXT!” type of mentality. The reason why this really hit home so to speak and really hurt me was that he did come from a very, very, very rough past (I know that was not bs because I know people who know him). We understood each other very well, better than another guy might be able to. I have an extremely rough, bad, bad past so for him to be able to relate was what really got to me. So that’s why, I’ve been fine now but I will say that I feel very unattractive and, well, like I’m worthless. I’m normally very confident in myself, this just really shook up my base. I like the badish bad boys, problem is, they are almost always players. I need to be with a guy who is tuff mentally and physically considering the sport I’m involved with. A guy who can be strong especially when I’m not able to be. A guy who can keep up with me in the gym and, well, in bed lol. And a guy who is not a player and is worth my time, not another douche who is just going to hurt me. So what am I doing wrong? Why do I attract every guy who is either unhealthy or bad, or is just not at all what I want? What are some things or techniques I can use to detect a VERY “refined in the art” player? What can I do to start making better choices in men? And can it be that maybe I’m to forward or something? Any advice would be great. Thanks!So basically what the deal is
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If you can’t attract the right guy then i don’t know who can.
You have so many attractive things about you, all you need to do is show your true colours in various places and you will catch a worthy mans eyes.
I hope you find the happiness you seek.
Best of luck,
Kyle.
You seem to have very high expectations from a male but I guess i can’t really blame you after all the bad luck you’ve been having. But you see, a lot of men find a strong, confident women like yourself quite intimidating. Anyway, the type of guy you are seeking for is going to almost always be a player, your looking for a guy who is a “bad boy” and works out at the gym.
Your almost asking for two traits that rarely come together, you want a badboy type of guy, but at the same time you want him not to give you the run around?
Maybe you should try dating guys not entirely based on their appearance?’ Its obvious that’s what you’ve be going for, most women do. Go for a sweet, sensitive guy and i can promise you you’ll have a completely different outcome.